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Two empty hands

  Even if I do think that success can appear anyhow almost immediately and has nothing to do with if you deserve it or not, I’m still a firm believer in the good ol’ “two empty hands-concept”.

  Some suspicion can be wise whenever you enter promotions or promises of quick big rewards and payments. We always help each other out, for else there would be no market at all, but honest success is in the end always self made. And definitely the thing to be truly proud of.  Real dreamers have drive like that, with only their own stamina and the determination to walk far beyond obstacles. A professional scammer appeals more to the gambler type, would gladly do the work for you. As long as you pay.

  Sorry to say I’ve seen examples of people born wealthy, running businesses just to get a kick out of it. Making money should be fun, but that’s not what I’m saying. What many don’t always understand is that there is a value itself in building something up on your own. The journey to go for or create something that will last in the future, and that it may even be of benefit for others. Along the journey we learn things, we discover our deepest fears, actions occurs, we meet the love of our life, destiny is writing its pages through our daily strivings. This is how the Laws are working, that is something money can’t buy. The book that explains this the best is definitely Paulo Coelho’s “The Alchemist“. Everything in Rhonda Byrne’s “The Secret” is absolutely true. It’s just so much more to it.

Set forth your goals and go for them. Never ever give up. No matter the obstacle. Along the journey we hopefully discover the difference between kick and real bliss. We find value. Hardcore goal setting will always risk to missing the point. Making a perfect vision and all focus on our goals trying out every method just to reach there, all the while being too arrogant to see and receive the blessings along the way. Love can never be a goal. It’s a blessing. Who the heck wants to become somebody else’s personal goal anyway?

  At the end of your adventure you’ll understand why you had to do it, and even if it didn’t end up the way you expected, you wont regret one single step that you did. So the blog called life was written down.  You were the one that actually wrote it, and you were given the best tools to do it - all the time. Yes you were. I’m talking about a good story, that holds real content.

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Music is my Medication

  …Yes, you just read it perfectly right. Not only meditation, but medication. I don’t know were I’ve been today if it wasn’t for music. I can not even imagine a world without music. When I look back I think this is one of the tools that have saved me, multiple times over. The perfect therapy response. And I know I share this experience with millions, whether it’s preforming it or just enjoy listening to it, whether it is Mozart
or if it’s Heavy Metal.

  As we all know, music can be incuraging, rebellious, sentimental or any emotion you need to channel at the moment, because our sense of musicality is close to our emotional centre in the brain. So this is just flat logical emotional science. We are reacting emotional beings, this is our nature. I don’t believe that music increases emotions, it rather responds to the mood or state that is already in there. So in a sense it works like homeopathics. That’s why I would guess this is such a healing, for so many.

 

I have a serious passion for traditional Folk and World Music, and once in a while also some Jazz Good Oldies, while others maybe rather would prefer Country or R&B and  Rap/Hip-Hop

  At times when you’re Feeling Blue maybe even Sound of Music - the musical of all musicals, will be too much for you. Some like Alternative, some like Main or even Hits. Most partyanimals warm up with Pop and Dance Music. You don’t have to be a cineast to want to recall your Favorite Movie. Sometimes you just want tunes that helps you to Relax after a hectic day, but such sounds can be quite annoying when you are bored and looking for something that can boost your Action back on track. Have I left any categories behind for you? Yes, Gospels and Spirituals can be great listening to as well, even if you’re not concidering yourself a pure Christian. Oh, and the most important of them all - our Children. How can we ever forget about them?

  This is the perfect gift or present for any music lover, for any holiday or day at all for that matter. There is something for everyone, depending on your mood, and it’s all harmless. Goodbye shrink, hello music! I can not refer a better way to get through than this. Music saves. Turn coins and move mountains. From the cottonfield to today, a shout for cry or joy. Some cynicals may say that music is just one way to escape reality. But anything can be used and abused for that purpose, any drug.

  I prescribe an aware use of music. Turn the random radio off if you are tired, unless you’re not so tired you have to use it to stay awake when you drive a car or something! Three favorite songs a day, keeps the doctor away. Go with the flow of your own taste, because it strengthens you. It releases stress and increase learning. At least so they say. It will surely get you back in the mood again.

When Mastermind Coaching SUCKS!

   I’d like to share the truth about myself and some of the painful experiences I’ve had. Not long ago I invested in a project and failed. This invitation seemed like a possibility for me to finally settle down and do what I’m here for and really want, but left me with nothing more than bank loans that only doubled the payouts I already had. During this time I also lost my new work and only current income, which after months of dispair finally forced me to beg for welfare. In trust of the future in this financial project I was unfortunate and stupid enough to have already burnt all my savings on a vacation.

   The Law of Attraction is nothing new to me. I’ve known about it, among all the other universal Laws, since I was in my late teens. This was in the early nineties, long before “The Secret-trend”. By then this was still kind of odd to believe in on the mainstream. What I discovered during this hard time is that there are certain times that I do not recommend any kind of participation with this kind of information. Tired, depressed, broke and out of direction, I had not only lost some but all of my motivation. Everything was just pitch-dark. Everything was taken away from me, my passion, inspiration, and almost my faith in anything. Even my beloved stereo, enjoying music - the only simple amusement I had left, also let me down because I had no money to fix it. Above all this I was so terribly frightened that I thought that my teeth was going to fall out of my mouth, and they literally did. I have lost one tooth that was aching those harsh months when I couldn’t afford the dentist, and I can tell you there have been times that I have wondered if I was going to even be able to chew my own food anymore.

   Bombarded with all these “achieve your dreams-messages” on my email, I was becoming only more depressed, day by day, for wanting so much, to live and to share, but being and seeing myself so terribly lost and cut off. With the awareness I had, I realized that I was in a severely hazardous condition, which only made the situation even more severe and frightening. You can always be and know that you are grateful, but during a depression it’s impossible to actually feel that gratitude. That’s why affirmation or visualization didn’t work for me at that point. I had nothing left to give. I wasn’t motivated to receive. The sparkle just simply wasn’t there - at all, and I had no idea how to find it. That is absolute misery. This is when I understood that the only person that could save me, was me. I wondered if I was going to lose my mind when one Mastermind Coach asked me why I had to do this on my own, because I didn’t even have an answer for it then. I just knew. At this point I could have just given up and lost myself forever. And with the knowledge I had, information or advice was the least thing I needed, or even to talk about it at all with anyone. That would only drain me. Couldn’t paint or write myself out of this condition either. I was far too distressed.

   But now, seeming not to want anything, I was even beginning to feel ashamed for feeling what I did, wanting to make it on my own, climbing my mountains, fording my own streams and finding my own dreams. I just had to let myself do that. That’s all I needed to do. To listen. In order to listen properly, you need complete silence. I believe we all have a radio receiver-transmitter inside us telling what our path and decisions really is. No one can do this for you and there is no right or wrong here. While I may have 95.0 Megahertz you might have 107.8 Megahertz, and our only task is to find the answer for the question: What is my music within? It’s so easy to lose connection and not be tuned in with our enormous flow of information and everything that’s happening aroud us everyday. At this vulnerable state, information will only be noise and disturbances on your radio. You need to be tuned in first so you can sing *your music* out loud. Of course, this is just my experience, so you will have to take your own stand whether this feels true for you or not as well. But watch out for the codependency out there. Nobody can judge you for being resistant, stubborn, unwilling or lazy for not being able to recieve their help. Others can only support you, but you have to do the work, including the hardest one - daring to be honest with yourself.

   In critical moments like these, I know many people give up on their lives. All I can say is, never never ever give up. There is somehow always a way out, no matter how hopeless or helpless the situation seems or feels. I exercised myself out of my personal crisis. It helped me through the day, each day. It helped me sleep at night. It distracted my so primitive fears. With the adrenalin frustration I was going through, I think I would have gotten very ill if it wasn’t for this, and this is my only recommendation. When most body/mind/spirit-teachers talk about how you can achieve physical wellness through different mental processes, I had to do it in the opposite direction, since I found myself suffering from a complete mental and spiritual “burn out”, and the point is, it works. In the very silence and emptiness of my mind, I’m still recovering. Find your favourite physical exercise. Buy your favourite equipment while you can afford it, because you might have use for it one day even if you aren’t inspired to move right now. This is an investment in yourself. It’s the far oldest, proven, simplest, most polite and completely harmless method ever. No risk, no side effects, if you wisely enjoy yourself doing it and do it on your own conditions. Anyone with a functional body can move something, even if you are on painkillers. You’ll understand how much this heals when you start making this an everyday lifestyle. The rewards are priceless, the relaxation and natural meditation that automatically comes with it, and the movement is free. In fact there is also a lot of exercise that is already completely natural and free. If you have stairs, walk them. If you have a job, walk there. If you have a bike, use it. If you have a functional radio - dance!

   I can still remember how much I hated the sports lessons in school. It has haunted and followed me until now these last years. What I now understand is that the prestige during the schoolyears made me associate all kind of exercise with stress and defeat. I’d just love to inspire you how I have independently learned and grown to associate exercise with pleasure, deep fulfillment and joy instead. That’s why you naturally will only want more and more of it. It helps you through defeat. Makes you master anything. Nothing can replace it, no book, no pill, no short cut or quick fix what so ever.

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   * What I have recalled is that the energy that everyone out there is talking about is nothing else but - pure love. The heart of everything, the motor of every atom, motion and emotion. This knowledge can not be understood intellectually in any kind of program, university, belief system or script. It’s a mystery that has to be revealed beyond words, goals, control or willpower through human experience within each one of us.*


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   The real secret - everything is love. Has always been, will always be. Which means your dreams awaits you. We tend to forget important things sometimes. Like creation is constantly re-experiencing its own beauty through evolution, maybe we sometimes have to do our own little adventures just to discover and be reminded and solidify in our hearts the beauty of this universial truth.